Your Questions About Best Self Help Books For Women

WOMEN ONLY Anyone know of a self-help book which guides women through a “break-up” with another female friend?

I recently had a falling out with two of my best girlfriends. I feel that the broken friendship is for the best. However, losing these friendships has been really heartbreaking. I feel like I just went through a messy divorce- it’s just so devastating. Are their any other women out there who have gone through the same thing and can recommend a good self-help/guidance book on the subject? I would like the book to be about the break-up of just female friendships. And please- this question is just for other women.

Emotionally Abused Women Self Help Groups and Advice…..?

I have a friend who’s boyfriend is very abusive emotionaly. Her mother, my mother and I are getting together tonight to talk about it. Our familes are really close and our moms are best friends and her and I live together. We also have grown up together.

I have found some good info about emotional abuse online and made of a list of the things that I witness and know he does to her.

This guy is a ticking time bomb and I just know he will hurt someone or something someday. I don’t even want my animals around him.

So I just need some advice on how to talk to her mother, should I inform her that he hit her once before that I know of?
Is it to give her all the info I found on emotional abusers?
What are some support groups or good self help books her or I can get her into and how can we help brake the chain of this physcopath?

thanks so much for your help.

Which of these books would be better for self improvement?

I am trying to be a better person and to be more feminine.

Which of these books would you say would be best?

1, Fascinating Girl – Helen Andelin
2, Preparing Your Hope Chest – Pearables
3, Personal Help For Girls – Pearables
4, What Southern Women Know – Ronda Rich
5, Live Your Life Healthy, Happy and Whole – Victoria Osteen
6, One Month To Live – Kerry & Chris Shook
7, Set Apart Femininity – Leslie Ludy
8, Raising Maidens of Virtue – Stacy McDonald

I think they are mostly American books and writers so I haven’t heard much about them. Also I’m not married so I want books that I can relate to. I just want some sort of guidelines to help me be who I want to be.
@ Dan – Reading all of them would take forever!!

@ Tracey – I am perfectly capable of maintaining a budget and already have an education, job and savings. I want to learn things in addition to that.

My “best friend” is self centered, what should i do?

My “best friend” is so self centered, when is say self centered i mean really really self centered!
for example if we talk about a celeb she always says “oh, she isn’t nothing compared to me” or “haha, how is she a celeb, she aint got the looks!”
I am a HUGE fan of Beyonce and i am saving up money for a concert if there is going to be one.My mom said she will buy me and my sister a VIP ticket (my sister is 19) and when i told, lets call her Shenice, she said “why are you wasting money on an ugly woman”
that made me furious, so i replied “If Beyonce is ugly, then your x10 uglier”
she just stood there so i added on saying “not everything in the world goes around the looks of people, jeez what happened to don’t judge a book by it’s cover” she later stormed out of my house.
I do not feel bad.Later on that day she called and said sorry, but then she added on “at least you could have of bought a ticket for me aswell!” I shut the phone on her face.
should i call and say sorry?
help, i am sick and tired of her immature behavior, i just turned fourteen around a month ago, so this Beyonce ticket is a present from Mom and my Sister.
what should i do?
thanks in advance.

I am a guy and I hate girls / women so much & I love them so much too. Could you please help me?

I agree with you that you just saw the weirdest question you might have ever seen so far. But……..

(Steve Chandler, in his self – help book “Reinventing yourself” says about an incident in which he scolded a woman very harshly. Later, when he became calm, he understood that if it was a man who did the same thing as done by that woman (which irritated Steve), he would have simply joked with him about the situation, instead of being so angry. So he arranged a group meeting in which there were many women and he seeked their help to resolve this double standards adopted by him and that meeting helped him to tackle this issue.)

Now, I am doing the same thing here. I have a very serious problem (ummm not really) with girls (women). Let me repeat, I hate them so much, but, at the same time I love them so much too. Let me explain, in my life, always, I can get along with most of the boys/men very easily. Normally, I don’t quarrel with any guy. But, with girls, I don’t do anything else.

But, on the other hand, I had very deep relationships (Minus sex and in love) with girls only. Never with boys. My relationship with boys has been always in the mid-way- stage – not high or low. (And yes, I am perfectly straight in my sexual orientation, not impotent, gay or bisexual etc.)

I am still a virgin and for the last 1 or 2 years, I purposefully did not date any girl. I don’t have any intention to marry in my life (my mother is torturing me for the same though). Now, I am an internet marketer and I am going to build and run a dating site intended to improve the dating success skills of guys, very soon.

So, I have to become an expert in the field of dating skills. I am good at it. But, of course, being an expert for the sake of my career (Internet Marketing) is another thing. So, I have already started my research yesterday.

But, only theory will not do. As I told you, I did not date for the last 1 or 2 years, one reason being that I cannot stand the character of many girls. But, when I study new dating strategies so as to teach other guys later through my site, I have to first test each technique / strategy to check whether it works or not.

Or in other words, for the sake of my career, I have to check the workability of various dating techniques with of course, gorgeous girls. (Well, they say they that we can teach only what we preach. Right.

So, do I like to flirt with gorgeous girls or not? Yes But No. Why No? I easily become irritated by the various remarks made by girls/ women I have to deal with, whether I am dating them or not.

A few months earlier, I had a short stint as an MBA student. Do you know the opinion of at least some of the girls there about me? “Arrogant, Self-Centred, Introvert etc.” I don’t know why. Perhaps, because I always purposefully neglected them. (I had a bad experience with a few girls in the beginning; so as usual, I avoided all girls in my class from then onwards)

Now, I have no other choice. The decision for starting the dating site will not be changed and I am very serious about it. So, please help me how I could be more understanding towards girls; instead of having a low opinion about many of them. That is surely essential for me to become a dating expert cum coach. Well my students couldn’t also fail. Right?

I know about the dating books provided by other Internet marketers. But, I cannot be always the affiliate of others.

So please help me by giving your valuable suggestions. I will surely vote for the best answer so that you can easily get 10 precious points.

Thanks a lot & Regards,
Sreejish

(Due to the fact that I did not date for the last 1 or 2 years, I checked whether my pick up lines work now also: check the link below: I used similar pick up lines earlier which worked then too. So, the actual question (in disguise) here was that if I want, can I get the attention of girls? Yes, I got attention of 11 people within 5 minutes.

But, the interesting part is that some of them believed all those. Each sentence in that article was made up, for the sake of entertaining others and checking the effectiveness of my dating skills after 2 years. Well you may get the 10 points there also. I am waiting for the voting part.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArnCw4mdwao6U6raIrLi09nty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20110326175431AAwCjU6

(Do you think that my book “My 10,000 Dating Blunders” will be successful?) )

No answer so far in 15 minutes. I should have summarised it all into 3 or 4 sentences